James Cordenand his wife Julia Carey wed in 2012 and now share three children (viaGood Housekeeping).

The duo immediately bonded over their shared feeling that going out was, well, beat.

“I was like, ‘How many children are we going to have?

James Corden and his wife Julia Carey

Are we going to have a dog?’

“I said, ‘What are you doing on Saturday night?

Do you want to stay in and do nothing?

James Corden and his wife Julia Carey

And then we could also do nothing on Sunday night.

And my hunch is, if we do enough nothing, then that nothing might become something.

And how would you feel about that?'”