You have no reason to apologize for any of this.
And if this means serious advance planning, so be it.
“So my family is kind of a weird mix between Chinese and Vietnamese,” he explained.

“Both my parents were born in Vietnam.
However, all four of my grandparents are Chinese from different parts of China.
We consider ourselves Chinese.

So I had actually asked for a Chinese tea ceremony in my wedding.
And we ended up doing a Vietnamese tea ceremony, which is not that far off.
It’s just a little bit more glam.”

“I wanted something to showcase how my family handles weddings,” he said.
“And so my family would be doing the ceremony to accept her into my family.
And then vice versa.
We accept this tea from you, and we accept you as our son-in-law.'”
Johnnyexplained that every part of the ceremony has a specific meaning, so getting the details right really matters.
Usually they do the eldest male first and then they go by age after that."
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